Transforming Relationship Patterns

Have you noticed that certain patterns repeat themselves in your relationships?

For example, perhaps in the beginning, romance, excitement and fulfilment are centre stage. Anything that the other does or says is charming, cute or sexy, and the sex is frequent, passionate and intense. Then a point comes, it may be a week or a year, when suddenly it seems as if things have taken a turn. There is more fighting than sex. Or the desire becomes more sporadic, or dries up altogether. Becomes blocked. The things that used to be adorable are frustrating. As much as you love your partner, you can’t consistently get along. Maybe you slog it out for a while, holding out hope of a return to the Eden of the early phase. Or maybe you rip the band-aid off and move on, as painful as it is for both of you, rationalising that the next relationship will be a better fit, or you’ll find ‘the One’.

The deeper knowing is that *every* relationship will go through some variation of this type of pattern, where issues inevitably surface. So what can be done?

The first step is to bring clarity to what exactly our patterns are. Noticing whether they shift over time, or are similar from relationship to relationship. Are they recurring? Are you consistently drawn to one or two ‘personality types’? Does your relationship narrative run in a particular sequence of events like the example above? What are your unconscious beliefs about relationship? What expectations do you hold of yourself and the other?

With this level of understanding we’ll then begin to look at the root of these patterns – which lies in our early developmental years.

By intellectually and experientially understanding how our upbringing and childhood experiences continue to play themselves out again and again throughout life, especially in intimate relationships, we can begin to transform the way that we engage in relationship.

As we do the inner work to uncover and transform these early experiences, inner support is developed for relationships which can be authentically loving, and connected with a maturity of intimacy, while also staying boundaried and autonomous - honouring us as individuals with unique life paths.

Whether you are currently in a relationship, single or any other relationship structure, join us to learn the tools and techniques on offer that can help you uncover your patterns, bring healing where needed and to ultimately transform how you engage in all of your relationships.

This 3 hour workshop will:

Ticket Price: $75 per individual or $125 per couple